Wise Coach – Naive Coach


I was reading this commercial from Tony Robbins' Newsletter " When someone asks you for help, how do you respond? The naive coach tends to "over-commit." They feel this heartfelt pressure to help the person, so the say, “Yes! Let me share my solutions with you. I’m committed to your change. Let’s make it happen!” … Continue reading Wise Coach – Naive Coach

Mentor Master Class- Free Tutorial Series 1-10 for Mentors from Jay Parkhe #4. how coaching helps


Abstract: Let us take an example to understand how coaching benefits employees .M was recently promoted to the post of a Team Manager , something he does not have a lot of experience on . At their first meeting , S asked a couple of questions to M to know more about him , just to get acquainted .  In the subsequent meetings , Stanley and Morgan discussed what … Continue reading Mentor Master Class- Free Tutorial Series 1-10 for Mentors from Jay Parkhe #4. how coaching helps

The Purpose Of Life Is Not Happiness: It’s Usefulness


You buy something, and you think that makes you happy. You hook up with people, and think that makes you happy. You get a well-paying job you don’t like, and think that makes you happy. You go on holiday, and you think that makes you happy. via The Purpose Of Life Is Not Happiness: It’s … Continue reading The Purpose Of Life Is Not Happiness: It’s Usefulness

I liked this parable : Mathew 13


For the novel by Octavia Butler, see Parable of the Sower (novel). The Parable of the Sower (sometimes called the Parable of the Soils) is a parable of Jesusfound in the three Synoptic Gospels in Matthew 13:1-23, Mark 4:1-20, and Luke 8:4-15. In the story, a sower sows seed and does so indiscriminately. Some seed … Continue reading I liked this parable : Mathew 13

Jay’s Quick Poetry-The Sharp And Grand Rock


Short story that inspired me to write a Quick Poem below Imagine life is a game in which you are juggling five balls. The balls are called work, family, health, friends and integrity. And you're keeping all of them in the air. But one day you finally come to understand that work is a rubber … Continue reading Jay’s Quick Poetry-The Sharp And Grand Rock

The Ultimate Dream


Where do we want to b?. What is our desired place we see? What is the Ultimate Place we wish to be? A Dreamer knows Inside OUT and Outside IN! We do tend to forget the dream and live life Going with the flow, mostly aimlessly. Dreams give us Purpose, Goals, Ambitions, and Aims - albeit … Continue reading The Ultimate Dream

Welcome to FB Group for Mentors and Startups, SMEs.


Welcome to our new Group - Jay Parkhe's Mentor MasterClass.  Pro-Bono Mentors who are keen to mentor Startups are welcome to join as part of the mentor community I wish to build for Startups. Startups and SME's are welcome to join as we hope to find them Right Mentors for their all needs in times … Continue reading Welcome to FB Group for Mentors and Startups, SMEs.

Diamond is merely a Lump …


Today's Inspirational Quote: "A diamond is merely a lump of coal that did well under pressure." -- Author Unknown I was reading an article From Ashes To Ashes To Diamonds: A Way To Treasure The Dead . It is very interesting ! It talks about "From Ashes To Ashes To Diamonds: A Way To Treasure The Dead"" … Continue reading Diamond is merely a Lump …

WOW! 88.8 ! No its not Poker Win but it is a Win all the same. May make me a Diet Mentor now.


So Congratulations to me.  The credit for this goes to my loving wife and family and my Doctors who did not let me waver like true mentors for one moment from my goal. They set three big strategic targets for me after my 2 heart attacks Get to 68Kg - your weight when you married … Continue reading WOW! 88.8 ! No its not Poker Win but it is a Win all the same. May make me a Diet Mentor now.

Dedicated to Mentees who quit or Cracked!


I wrote an article some time ago, about the 11 mentoring approaches I used and then found that there are many many more Mentoring approaches I do not know about. I was especially inspired by this video I found on YouTube that talks about 5 1/2 Mentors which this Basketball player found in his lifetime … Continue reading Dedicated to Mentees who quit or Cracked!

Interesting day. Great Gyan from WhatsApp on my Walks and some great phrases I learnt.


I came across this Brilliant Quote by Nobel laureate 'Desmond Tutu' which read.. “When the Missionaries came to #Africa they had the #Bible and we had the Land. They said ‘Let us Pray.’ We Closed our eyes. When we opened them, we had the Bible and they had the land... Like wise, When 'Facebook & … Continue reading Interesting day. Great Gyan from WhatsApp on my Walks and some great phrases I learnt.

Contrasting phrases generated today


Jaws of Life Meaning: Usually this references a tool used by rescuers when they pry or cut open a car to save the occupant. This reminds me of the time when I had seen the worst of Rail and Road accidents and as RSS workers we were busy overnight to help the victims as rescuers.  … Continue reading Contrasting phrases generated today

Inappropriate, Fell short. Random input phrases to Provoke Thoughts


Money Doesn't Grow On Trees Meaning:  Suggests that money is a resource that must be earned and is not one that's easily acquired. Expecting Acts of Kindness? Expecting delivery on a platter without doing any Efforts?  Well. Learn to create many many sources of generating passive income. Some may actually work and then the saying … Continue reading Inappropriate, Fell short. Random input phrases to Provoke Thoughts

I call it Completion Gene or FINISHIATIVE – for Startpreneurs !


Today's Inspirational Quote: "It doesn't matter whether you come in first, in the middle of the pack, or last. You can say, 'I have finished.' There is a lot of satisfaction in that." -- Fred Lebow What is FINISHIATIVE. WHY DID JAY PARKHE COIN THIS TERM? Do you remember the old saying? Never put off … Continue reading I call it Completion Gene or FINISHIATIVE – for Startpreneurs !

5 Minute Mentor Mentee Interview.


Whether you are a Mentor or you wish to be a C Suite Mentee The following can provide you a quick way to break the ice in an early mentoring meeting (with thanks to the Independent newspaper). The answers don’t have to be written down – this is to create conversation. Fundamental to this interview are two main Communication … Continue reading 5 Minute Mentor Mentee Interview.

Story Telling – The Story for Stan F. Smith (?)


I am not sure, if Stan F. Smith was his correct name. I met the gentleman in 7th Floor Free Ward of Jaslok Hospital in year 1979.  No. He did not present a pleasant sight. His half the Skull had stitches in his bald head and he had been operated for Fileria ( Haathi Panv) … Continue reading Story Telling – The Story for Stan F. Smith (?)

E.S.T.M. a sub-approach Of Jay Parkhe’s 11 Mentoring approaches Part 1


E.S.T.M. : OR Emotional Stability Technique of Mentoring is one of Jay Parkhe's favorite Techniques he sparingly uses with very select mentees who he believes are mentally, emotionally, sentimentally very Strong.  If at the outset, with his Transparency, Coach Reveals himself, mentor Provocation and challenge - it turns out that the Mentee is not very … Continue reading E.S.T.M. a sub-approach Of Jay Parkhe’s 11 Mentoring approaches Part 1

Interesting Ugly Phrases from generator today :)


Eat My Hat Meaning: Having confidence in a specific outcome; being almost sure about something. Talk the Talk Meaning:  Supporting what you say, not just with words, but also through action or evidence. If You Can't Stand the Heat, Get Out of the Kitchen Meaning:  One should discontinue with a task if they are unable to … Continue reading Interesting Ugly Phrases from generator today 🙂

GOOD, Bad and ugly phrases of the day


Fish Out Of WaterMeaning: Someone being in a situation that they are unfamiliar or unsuited for. Wild Goose ChaseMeaning: Futilely pursuing something that will never be attainable. Cut The MustardMeaning: To cut the mustard is to meet a required standard, or to meet expectations. Long In The ToothMeaning: Old in age. Mainly used when referring to people or horses. … Continue reading GOOD, Bad and ugly phrases of the day

Jay Parkhe’s C.A.L.M. Approach to Mentoring and Greased Lightening


One of the Sub-Approaches within his Professional Mentoring Practice Jay Parkhe uses is named by him as CALM - Concentrated, Accelerated, Learning Methods.  There is nothing calm about it.  And the usual Perceptive feedback/ Feedforward he received form his Direct reports 22 years ago and his latest Mentees is no Different.  "Jay, you are too … Continue reading Jay Parkhe’s C.A.L.M. Approach to Mentoring and Greased Lightening

Interesting phrases.


Jack of All Trades Master of NoneMeaning: Having suitable skill in multiple things, but not being an expert in any of them. On Cloud NineMeaning: Having strong feelings of happiness or satisfaction.  Scot-freeMeaning: Getting away freely from custody, punishment, or any type of risky situation. Fish Out Of WaterMeaning: Someone being in a situation that they are unfamiliar or … Continue reading Interesting phrases.

What is Art? What is HEAVY?


द्यदालिखति मनः आशावर्तिकाभीः हृदयफलके । तत्तद्बाल इव विधिर्निभृतं हसित्वा प्रोञ्छति ॥ Whatever the mind inscribes (paints), with the brushes of desire, on the board of the heart, fate, stealthily smilingly, wipes it all out, like a little child! भारोऽविवेकिनः शास्त्रं भारो ज्ञानं च रागिणः । अशान्तस्य मनो भारः भारोऽनात्मविदो वपुः ॥ - योगवासिष्ठ, वैराग्य An … Continue reading What is Art? What is HEAVY?

Feedforward by mentees “One Man Company and 11 in 1 Accomplished Mentor” – A compilation.


This article is also available on LInkedin I sought a Feedforward from my Mentees, Friends, Peers, Ex-Bosses and Mentors about this article. The responses have been most overwhelming, challenging and quite motivating. 1,Thank you AVM from Bengaluru for this fabulous feedforward: Quote "Hello First of all fantastic compilation of the areas which suits very well … Continue reading Feedforward by mentees “One Man Company and 11 in 1 Accomplished Mentor” – A compilation.

Searching for meaning in life? The Japanese concept of ikigai can help you find it | Big Think


Searching for meaning in your life? This Japanese concept can help you find it February 6, 2018 by PHILIP PERRY A map of the ancient Japanese concept of ikigai. In the post-modernist, Western world, religious life has decreased substantially, patriotism has been replaced with a widespread distrust of the government, and getting ahead has become … Continue reading Searching for meaning in life? The Japanese concept of ikigai can help you find it | Big Think

One Man Company and 11 in 1 Accomplished Mentor – Jay Parkhe


We are all a One Man Company. Jay is A Complete FootBall/ Cricket/ Hockey Team Rolled into one as an Accomplished Mentor 1. Jay is a Coach. ( For Executives / StartPreneura / Businessman/Woman): When you need to have older, wiser person around, who is better attuned to your industry and job, Jay can coach … Continue reading One Man Company and 11 in 1 Accomplished Mentor – Jay Parkhe

Interesting Philosophies


Nihilism (/ˈnaɪ(h)ɪlɪzəm, ˈniː-/; from Latin nihil, meaning 'nothing') is the philosophical viewpoint that suggests the denial or lack of belief towards the reputedly meaningful aspects of life. Most commonly, nihilism is presented in the form of existential nihilism, which argues that life is without objective meaning, purpose, or intrinsic value.[1] Moral nihilists assert that there … Continue reading Interesting Philosophies

Nihilistic’s delusion


nihilistic delusion Also found in: Dictionary, Thesaurus, Legal, Encyclopedia, Wikipedia. Related to nihilistic delusion: delusion of poverty, delusion of negation, Cotard Syndrome delusion [dĕ-loo´zhun] a false belief that is firmly maintained in spite of incontrovertible and obvious proof to the contrary and in spite of the fact that other members of the culture do not share … Continue reading Nihilistic’s delusion

Nihilistic’s Delusion


nihilistic delusion Related to nihilistic delusion: delusion of poverty, delusion of negation, Cotard Syndrome delusion a false belief that is firmly maintained in spite of incontrovertible and obvious proof to the contrary and in spite of the fact that other members of the culture do not share the belief. adj., adj delusional. bizarre delusion one … Continue reading Nihilistic’s Delusion

Erotomanic delusions


Erotomania is a type of delusional disorder where the affected person believes that another person is in love with him or her. This belief is usually applied to someone with higher status or a famous person, but can also be applied to a complete stranger. Erotomania - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotomania Can stress make you delusional? Abnormalities … Continue reading Erotomanic delusions

Killing Thrills


Thrill Killing is the act of committing murder for no reason other than self-satisfaction or to receive either a sexual or emotional "high" - due to the fact Thrill Killers often target complete strangers and have sadistic personalities that involve torturing and dehumanizing their victims as well as the fact they commit extreme crimes for … Continue reading Killing Thrills

QOTD


Benjamin Jowett "Never retreat. Never explain. Get it done and let them howl." via Today's Quote https://ift.tt/2vkJzau April 16, 2018 at 10:35AM via RSS Feed https://www.brainyquote.com/authors/benjamin_jowett P. J. O'Rourke "The mystery of government is not how Washington works but how to make it stop." via Today's Quote https://ift.tt/2mME5kK April 17, 2018 at 10:32AM via RSS Feed https://www.brainyquote.com/authors/p_j_orourke Oscar Wilde "Experience is … Continue reading QOTD

At My Age, We Don’t Slow Down. We Speed Up !


I am a Senior Citizen. We don't need any qualification to become one . Just live 60 years of life and you become one 🙂 Many of mentees/Coachees complain to me that they can not cope up with Jay. He is too fast paced and his Speed of delivery is phenomenal.  Jay spent good 25 … Continue reading At My Age, We Don’t Slow Down. We Speed Up !

Jay’s Master Mentor Class


As a Mentor I start with the belief that : The Master Appears when the Pupil is ready. When the Mentor is willing to be fully Transparent and willing to Reveal him/herself to the Mentee in full. When the mentor is Selfless, When the Mentor is Detached yet attached, When the Mentor is Involved yet … Continue reading Jay’s Master Mentor Class

Why People behave the way they do -Why people do what they do


In IMDR's 1988 HR class Prof. Deven Dhanak used to refer to this statement "Why people behave the way they do "and used to talk about Chrys Argyris theories around them. Over the years when I joined NHRDN I found the same question was relevant even in 1993. When I reflect in my pre-retirement period and … Continue reading Why People behave the way they do -Why people do what they do

Via Newsletter BrainPickings I like.


The Life of the Mind: Hannah Arendt on Thinking vs. Knowing and the Crucial Difference Between Truth and Meaning “To lose the appetite for meaning we call thinking and cease to ask unanswerable questions [would be to] lose not only the ability to produce those thought-things that we call works of art but also the … Continue reading Via Newsletter BrainPickings I like.

What is Empirical evidence


Empirical evidence - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empirical_evidence Empirical evidence, also known as sensory experience, is the information received by means of the senses, particularly by observation and documentation of patterns and behavior through experimentation. The term comes from the Greek word for experience, via what is empirical evidence - Google Search

Critical Thinking


critical thinking The goal of critical thinking is to arrive at the most reasonable beliefs and take the most reasonable actions. We have evolved, however, not to seek the truth, but to survive and reproduce. Critical thinking is an unnatural act. By nature, we're driven to confirm and defend our current beliefs, even to the … Continue reading Critical Thinking

What is Thinking?


Psychologists have concentrated on thinking as an intellectual exertion aimed at finding an answer to a question or the solution of a practical problem. Cognitive psychology is a branch of psychology that investigates internal mental processes such as problem solving, memory, and language. thinking ˈθɪŋkɪŋ/ noun noun: thinking 1. the process of considering or reasoning about something. "the selectors have … Continue reading What is Thinking?

Jay Parkhe mentor discourse: 29/03/2018


Jay Parkhe mentor discourse: 29/03/2018 Jay Parkhe mentor discourse: 29/03/2018 "The Best condition for sure and steady progress on the path to success is the benefit of guidance from the Mentor who gives guidance and helps which is necessary according to the immediate needs of the mentee. All mentor expects is that the mentee will … Continue reading Jay Parkhe mentor discourse: 29/03/2018