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One-Minute Power Mentoring 1- Jay Parkhe: My speeches


O.M.P.M. 1. (One-Minute Power Mentoring)

Hello.

If you have a VC Pitch presentation and you are struggling, If you are a C-Suite aspirant and have a gut-feel that you will be ‘Off-listed’ if you do not improve your speaking and presentation skills – I shall help you both. I am a Startup and C-Suite Mentor, An Author, Global Speaker, Toastmaster, and Global Goodwill Ambassador.

I am Jay Parkhe.

I am starting a New YouTube Channel.

It will be a video for about a Minute per day.
There will be one Theme Word or a combination of two words like I chose “Wishful Thinking” for today.

Wishful thinking is not the same as manifesting that which you desire.

You are on the right track.

Continue to use your imagination to inspire you, and to let all your dreams unfold.

Don’t get wishful thinking confused with the law of attraction.

The difference between wishful thinking and actually manifesting is this:

wishful thinking uses words such as “I hope”, “maybe someday”, “I can’t wait until”, or “I hope I can make this happen”.

If this is what you are doing, it is a good start, but it is not enough to manifest what you desire.

Trust me, when I say this, you can have what you want,
but you are going to have to match the frequency of already having it before you can experience it.
So, today, take the time to feel it as already done. That is the key!

My Speech Mentor once told me to make a practice video. Listen to it and after internalizing, speak again.
This way, he said, As you have done the speech in the past – the Future looks more solid and Do-Able.
Think, It is already done. Feel the satisfaction of knowing it is here now, not out there somewhere else.

You can have what you are asking for!

Your guides and angels want to help you bring this into your experience! Do what you need to do to help you feel that it is already done! It is already done. Believe it and you will manifest it!

If you would like to interact with me about Mentoring you can write to me at parkhe@gmail.com and I shall send you a Free Mini-ebook which will tell you all about my 11 Key Mentoring Practices I deploy with my mentees.

Thank you.

WORD OF THE DAY


WORD OF THE DAY
Crepuscular
krə-pəs-kyə-ler
Part of speech: adjective
Origin: Latin, mid 17th century
1

Of or pertaining to twilight

2

Active in twilight or evening, as with certain animals

Examples of Crepuscular in a sentence

“Crepuscular animals tend to move around in the period between day and night.”

“The crepuscular hour is my favorite, when the sky turns deep red and purple and the noise of the day quiets to a whisper.”

My speeches at Toastmasters: Persuasion: Would be father-in-law. Humorous speech


You PIERCE My Soul.
I am Half Agony,
Half Hope
I have Loved NONE
but You!
I was in Love and
she was non-committal
would-be far-in-law very furious
I had tried every persuasive Trick in my repertoire and
Lost my Sweeart!
Mom wasn’t a Help
A School Head-Mistress
and a widow
she was a tough lady.
When would-be-far-in-law
tried to make a Pass –
she gave him a Punch in face
and broke his front teeth and Jaw!
I was heartbroken!

Fellow Toastmasters and Guests.
It was Aristotle, who broke down essential elements of persuasion into three parts:

(1) logos or logic
(2) ethos or ethic, and
(3) pathos or emotion.
Logos refers to logic, words, and reasons in your argument. “our narrative must fit toger like links in a chain or pieces of a jigsaw puzzle to form a coherent statement or argument.

Think, plan talk,
we organize points in a sequence from general
to particular, from start to conclusion,
with each point building on each previous point to form a persuasive argument.”

second aspect of persuasion—ethos—
refers to your character, ethics, and our believability when we speak. Increase credibility with our audience before and after our speech increases likelihood that listeners will accept our arguments and take action on our recommendations.

Pathos is emotional content of our presentation and most important.
When we move people at an emotional level
n we can motivate m to change ir thoughts and take a particular action..
My Mom said she’ll FIX it.
She’ll ARRANGE a marriage for me.
We sat on a Plane for first time.
My Pilot was Rajiv Gandhi.
Excited, we reached by Cab from Bhopal to Indore to see a Prospective Bride.

I was a Field Officer in a Fertilizer company.
Would be far in law was a bank manager.
He probed about my job and concluded
” It’s a Thankless job, you do! ”

I did not want to manipulate,
I told him Truth.
I left a bank job because of I felt that was thankless!
Needless to say, I remained 7 star Sales Person won all honors in company but..
I did not get married n with that Girl
who agreed with her far.
I did not want to manipulate,
Let me give you another example: Have you Ever Resigned from a Job?

I have..
I resigned 6 times.
No one leaves a good company.
We all leave bad bosses.
As a Recruiter, Boss and Leader I recruited. Thousands of people in 25 years…
I was both, good and bad boss .
and accepted. hundreds of resignations, .
Before I sent people to HR for Exit interviews I would ask m
Have you finally, decided to quit after a logical, rational thought?
If answer was a firm yes, I would let people GO with a heavy heart but I would respect ir decision and told m so
If answer was non-definite I would ask m if y wanted help or decision support from me?
I would tell m if you still reach a decision to quit after my counsel. –
I will respect decision.
Many people stayed back.
I persuaded. well.
last example, I was a salesman at 12.
I had medical reps much elder to me as my friends.
Mr. Rao was 40, Bald and energetic. (Don’t look at TMOD! OR GE please ! )
He represented Warner Hindustan and always gifted us sample bottles of Waterbury’s compound.
He tried hard to convince Top doctor in city
who was my uncle and never prescribed Waterbury’s compound.
He tried all tricks in his book which were ethical, logical and emotional – all. persuasive types.
One day, he found my uncle ready to sit in car,ready to go home and he asked him.
Doctor, I . tried every trick I learned in past 20 years with you for past 3 years but why. have I not succeded to convince you.
May. I now surrender before you and ask you -= How to convince a Top Doctor like you.
My Uncle laughed his 7 story Laugh. His ego satisfied, inflated. He drove away. Did not say a word.
But he prescribed Waterbury’s compound reafter to one and sundry.
Now that’s power of persuasion.
Ladies and Gentlemen, Never lose heart and manipulate ors – Persuade. It takes longer but we succeed.
To end, let me give you a Quote –
How quick comes reason to approve what we care about?
Let us Persuade, Convince,
Understand ors first before ors understand us,
and Win Victories and friends for life.
Over to you, ToastMaster.

WORD OF THE DAY


WORD OF THE DAY
Blatherskite
bla-thər-skīt
Part of speech: noun
Origin: Scottish English, 17th century
1

Nonsense

2

A person who is prone to speaking nonsense

Examples of Blatherskite in a sentence

“I don’t want to hear your blatherskite — I need you to speak clearly about things that really matter.”

“The teacher had great insights, but he was such a blatherskite that his students never understood them.”

Random Phrases of the day


  1. Wake Up CallMeaning: An occurance of sorts that brings a problem to somebody’s attention and they realize it needs fixing.
  2. Not the Sharpest Tool in the ShedMeaning: Someone who isn’t witty or sharp, but rather, they are ignorant, unintelligent, or senseless.
  3. Elvis Has Left The BuildingMeaning: Something that is all over.

Wisdom Quotes


This very moment is your life, so make it a moment worth living.

Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life. (Omar Khayyam)

You don’t figure out how to live by thinking about it, but by living life.
Everything has been figured out, except how to live. (Jean-Paul Sartre)

Did you know…


… that today is You Light Up My Life Day? On the birthday of singer Debby Boone, who sang the hit song “You Light Up My Life,” light up someone’s life. Do something special for them. Boone, the daughter of Pat Boone, was born on September 22, 1956, at Hackensack, New Jersey. Happy birthday, Debby!

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Today’s Inspirational Quote:

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”

— Martin Luther King Jr.