#Life #Relationshiops #judging #situation #expectations
- I Smell a Rat Meaning: A feeling that something is not quite right, or awry. I met him. He was late. The meeting lasted 30 minutes against original plan of 2 hours as we met after nearly 6 years. Something was amiss. Something was wrong.
Par For the Course Meaning: What you would expect to happen; something normal or common. He came to the point said I shall do two things for you. I said, I came to meet without expectations. He added and committed to more more I this this was not par for the course. Seemed like a Gimme to me.
You Can’t Judge a Book By Its Cover Meaning: Don’t judge someone or something only by the outward appearance. The beard was gone, Hair were short cropped, eyes bore a cold look. Was the man Calm and composed within. I was not judging.
On the Ropes Meaning: Being in a situation that looks to be hopeless! There was no compatibility, there was no synergy, leveraging strengths was thrown out of the windows ( and were there too many of them?) The break up was inevitable.
Give a Man a Fish Meaning: It’s better to teach a person how to do something than to do that something for them. I have believed in this phrase all my life but still do things as Mentor for them I should not be doing and that makes them habituated of spoon feeding, Receiving and expecting more = ready on a platter. When not delivered the bubble bursts.
Isn’t that called Life?