Thank you friends for 5000❤️likes! gratitude! 

I began blogging in real earnest from 13th May. Wanted to keep aside my hurt feelings and focus positively on creating and engaging myself. I am grateful to all visitors, viewers, friends and new friends who kept me moving ahead. I’m grateful . I especially like those who wrote special comments – they were most pleasant . I respect your support. 

Random Sentences – Make my day!

  1. Malls are great places to shop; I can find everything I need under one roof.

    I wish I was Omnipotent, omniscient, all knowing, all powerful – Just like the Mall 🙂

  2. Please wait outside of the house.

    I then thought it is better to wait outside and see if there is any Pheriwalla (door to door salesman) coming to sell what I needed.  Old Age, you know! 🙂

  3. He said he was not there yesterday; however, many people saw him there.

    What a phony! 🙂

That’s how started my day.

Selfishness, Selflessness and Personal Ego

Selfishness and selflessness are two phases of the life of the personal ego, and these two phases are continuous with each other.

Selfishness arises when all the desires are centred around the narrow individuality. Selflessness arises when this crude organisation of desires suffers disintegration and there is a general dispersing of desires with the result that they cover a much wider sphere.

Selfishness is the narrowing down of interests to a limited field; selflessness is the extension of interests over a wide field.

To put it paradoxically, selfishness is a restricted form of selflessness, and selflessness is the drawing out of selfishness into a wide sphere of activity.


[Discourses by Meher Baba, volume-I, p-29-30 (Copyright ©1967 by Adi K. Irani, King’s Rd., Ahmednagar, Maharashtra, India)]

A chance encounter in a fertilizer dealer shop reminds me of this caption always.  I met a group of Guntotting Ex Dacoits who had spent 7 years in Open Jail as punishment and surrendered in front of Late Shri JayPrakash Narayan.

This Ex Dacoit was a Farmer and political leader now.  When introduced as the sales person who was selling his favorite brand of fertilizer – He had asked in HINDI whther “Ye Saheb swarthee hain ya parmarthee”. A Deep question about whether this person I am being introduced is Selfish or Selfless?  Even an Ex Convict chooses to know this beforehand.  Why I wondered?